I have received a number of comments from different people who are unable to attend the meeting, here they are:
1. A new sign put up outside HIGHER UP above the fence which permanently states when services take place, a pertinent bible quote
in German and English and the next 2 or 3 events.
2. What is a gracious way to encourage the parents of noisy children to adjoin to the creche, which is provided. How do we ask our own members (often the most long-standing ones) to just move towards the seats on each side and leave the aisle ones free for those coming later.
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3. The most welcoming gesture would be a smiling face guiding one to a seat. Even given that some seats are rickety and placed very close together, I have observed that there are seats, just often not reachable.
In Bible Study Fellowship, there are dedicated ladies assigned to guide people to first fill up the front, then the sides, then the isles. Will we be able to impliment this in church? It is counter-productive to keep emphasizing that we need a bigger church…
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4. I think our welcome is actually quite good and it is not the area of highest priority at the minute. How can we best harness our resources and encourage our members to seek God’s way forward through the present difficulties? This would be the central issue.
However, in relation “Welcoming”: New comers already seem to get the impression that we are a friendly and open church. It could be tightened up a bit with welcomers (with labels) standing outside the church and encouraging people to come through to the hall for coffee. It is important that new comers are not left alone to fend for themselves, but rather are included. There are several people who do this as a matter of course, who actively engage newcomers.
It is important to be able to give them a magazine and small welcome pack,(bombarding someone with paperwork is not helpful) but above all to engage them, to let them know that we are interested in them, that they are welcome and that there is a place for them in our midst. Without this whatever is organised will bear little fruit. Such welcomers would probably be the best people on the door at the start (ie. our sides people) I do not believe there is a direct link to pastoral care unless someone is in special need and expresses it; if they need to speak with a chaplain, they can be directly introduced.
This first step of welcome is essential but equally as important is what happens next. Welcome is about enabling new people to become a part of the community and they need to be engaged and helped to become part of the church by putting them in contact with groups such as: junior church, Friday night Bible Study, House Groups, music group, choir etc.
Making the system too complicated or over bureaucratic would be counterproductive. It is more about ensuring that the informal system we have at present is working properly and that we pick up responsibility for this ministry.
Brainstorming Meeting Held on 6 May 2007
As a follow up to this posting, I shall add a copy of the main points of our Welcome Meeting (without names)